To Our Readers and Supporters:
I
have received so many inquiries with respect to the Motivation Skills
component of our MES courses that I’m printing below an overview of the
empowering concepts that are part of all courses taught by MES. Lesson
Plans on both the Basic and Advanced Level are available for all the
concepts listed below. Just go to our website at modedsys-nereg.com, and click on the “Store” page for further info. Remember that you can always
contact me directly at modedsys@aol.com. And believe me, I always look forward to those contacts - especially from all my former students. Enjoy!
Doug M.
Motivation Skills Concepts-
An Overview
1.) Attitude is everything!!! Mr. Miagi’s first lesson.
2.) Focus Powah!!! The “Focus”, Goal, Dream, or “Reason Why” gives us Power.
3.) “Power” to do what? Power to reach for and to achieve the “Extraordinary”! (Dead Poets Society)
4.) Why believe this? The concept of “Human Dignity”
“Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we
are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that
most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a
child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is
nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel
insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were
born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just
in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we
unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are
liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates
others.”
- Marianne Williamson
5.) Implications of the “Dignity Concept”:
a.) Soul made in the image of God knows no limit.
b.) “Powerful beyond measure” See the “Fingers versus Focus” metaphor below.
c.) We are treasure, not trash; jewel, not junk; diamond, not a piece of cheap glass.
d.) We
have unique worth, value – like the sun in the sky, we too have a
calling to serve some vital role in creation, to impact this world in a
unique way, in a way that only we can touch it and transform it.
e.) We are called to be an “original, not a copy, a copy, a copy…
“One thing I don’t understand. Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you born to stand out?”
- Ian to Daphne in “What a Girl Wants”
“I have it in me that I can be someone in this world”
- Homer to his father in “October Sky”
f.) We are powerful to become “outstanding” (born to “stand out”), to reach for and to achieve the
“extraordinary”, to reach for and to achieve the summits of excellence. It is the call of our human spirit to
“courage” as innate or intrinsic to the character of God’s Spirit.
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Motivation Skills Concepts-
An Overview (cont.)
5.) f.) (cont.) Definition of “Courage”: never to run in fear from, but always to proceed boldly forward through
cost, cross, crisis, and challenge toward our most cherished goals and dreams.
“Courage is the angel that makes the difference between a good life and a great one.”
“Great men and women are not great because they do not fail or fear, but because failure and fear do not
stop them.” - (Thought attributed to Confucius)
6.) Faith Factor! Believe the implications of the “Dignity” concept!
Believe in the implications of human dignity, and craft a path into your future building on the foundation of
your dignity and its ramifications.
a.) Five “Faith” statements:
1. A hundred times more powerful than what anyone believes about you is what you believe about yourself.
2. Definition
of “Faith”: to believe not what you see, but see always what you
believe – especially what you believe with respect to your dreams, your
life’s value, and your future.
3. People who believe in their potential for excellence dare to be different.
4. Believing is 90% of succeeding.
5. “Faith” is in the reaching! (The Jogger story)
7.) The True Test of Faith: “Tenacity!” = a heart that won’t quit!!!
The
“Yoda Principle!”: “There is no try! There is only do, or do not!” –
From “Empire Strikes Back”: Luke Skywalker says, “I don’t believe it!”,
and Yoda answers, “That is why you fail!”
Mr. Miagi’s second lesson: ‘You karate do, OK! You karate no do, OK! You karate “guess so”, get squished
like grape!’
Remember the “Yoda Principle” lessons learned from “Elle” in “Legally Blonde”, and “Anne Marie” in “Blue Crush”.
Reaching
for Dreams of Excellence even in the face of cost, cross, crisis, and
challenge is the ultimate indicator of the “Faith Factor” present in the
human spirit. “Faith” always says “I can!” and never, never quits. The
words “I quit” are always preceded by the words “I can’t, I can’t, I
can’t” and the Fear which inspires them.
a.) “I can’t!” inspired by “Fear” leads to “I quit!”
b.) “I can!” leads to rising each time you fall, and is inspired by the “Faith Factor” mind set.
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An Overview (cont.)
8.) The “Love Factor” – also known as the “Friendship Factor” or the “Team Concept
Defined: You will go one hundred times farther in life for a friend, with a friend, for love than you will ever go alone.
Implications of the “Love Factor”:
a.) No one climbs Mt. Everest alone. Unless we go “hand-in-hand” to dreams of excellence, we will not get there.
b.) The
“Master-Mind” Principle: “Synergy” – there is a level of performance
power, and a level of performance insight we can only have together.
Source for teaching on the “Master-Mind” Principle is Napoleon Hill’s
book, “Think and Grow Rich”, second best-selling book of the twentieth
century. (Second after the Bible!)
Good
films to study in this regard: “October Sky”, “Rudy”, “Legally Blonde”,
“Blue Crush”, “The Knight’s Tale”, “Cool Runnings”, “Miracle”, “Wizard
of Oz”.
c.) Harnessing
the Power of Love, the greatest power in the universe to fuel our
pursuit of dreams and goals. Examples of Sarah Hughes (2002 Salt Lake
City Winter Olympics) and Kerri Strug (1996 Atlantic Summer Olympics)
used in class. Also, the Father digging his son out of the earthquake,
and the mother lifting the car off her child.
9.) The Three Levels of Motivation:
a.) “Factory
of Fear” Level – Fear of punishment motivates performance. Motivation
does not come from within. Lowest level of motivation. It is beneath our
human dignity to encourage it.
b.) “Profit Sharing” Level – Level of Incentives used to motivate behavior. This level of motivation was used in our class.
c.) Highest Level of Motivation: “Romance” – Motivation rooted and reinforced by the Love Factor:
Romance:
a type of story narrating the wonderful lives and extraordinary tales
of knights and chivalric heroes, tales filled with excitement, love, and
adventure. To quote John Elredge in “Wild at Heart”, such lives are
characterized by a “battle to fight”, an “adventure to live”, and a
“beauty to fight for”.
The Three “R’s” which give us “Motivation” with a capital “M”: “Reaching for Reason “Why” rooted and reinforced by the Romance.
This brings us to the “Bloody Sock” level of motivation where the pain
of losing the dream is greater than the physical pain in the leg. Films
which have such scenes are “The Karate Kid”, Blue Crush”, “The Knight’s
Tale”.
“Reaching”
= Faith. The “Reason Why” is the “Focus Factor” which releases “Powah!”
into our performance. “Romance” harnesses the “Power of Love” which
elevates performance to the summits of excellence. Whether teacher,
doctor, or fireman, there is a level of performance excellence we can
only achieve when we care for the people we serve.
10.) Remember:
Remember always the Power of the Human Soul made in God’s Image: With
God’s help there is no limit to how high that soul can reach, or how far
that soul can go on a journey to dreams of excellence come true.
Remember too to reach for that excellence with faith- faith to the point
of unshakable conviction. Lastly, remember that this world only
recognizes and rewards excellence!!!